Sometimes when we feel abandoned by everyone including our nearest and dearest family. However when we understand that we don't take only one birth but many births, and our current birth/blood relations are not the only relation or connections we have but many souls whom we have bonding from our various births are our soul mates and soul connections. Then we will feel a sense of relief or indifference towards the behavior of your current birth family. In fact as a soul we are eternally bonded to some souls that are sometimes referred to as pure Love or Soul Mates.
We don't have to go very far to find an example for the above. We may find a perfect example in our life or someone whom we know.
Adopted Children are souls whom we have a soul bonding and these people are soul mates or whom we have enjoyed many many different relations over different physical trail (birth). In this birth we may not have a blood connection; however we are together and are enjoying such a strong bond of Pure Bliss and Love together.
So when we only look at life from one outlook; that our current birth blood relations are the only relations (albeit; deceitful and causing us so much grief), then we will feel the pain. However when we expand our thinking that the whole world soul's are connected somewhere in some birth, then the whole world will become our relation and the feeling of being all alone will immediately vanish.
When other people in our life causes us anguish or pain, events or circumstances that arises that causes discomfort is not because GOD has looked away. The reason why we experience this is because up until NOW, we are not living our life to its maximum potential.
Different scenarios via people or relationship and situations or circumstances come to expand our limits or our outlook towards life.
So instead of feeling pain or feeling hopeless; ask your self this question; what is this situation teaching me? What is this person teaching me? Make a list (even a mental note will do) of all the answers you get. When we do that we will be so surprised with the list. The reason for this is because:
Within every adverse situation or circumstance the solution is already cleverly disguised. Our job is not to create or find a solution, but to feel our way to that solution.
So if we feel despair, hopeless or angry, then we will not be able to see (get to) the solution. The trick is to feel even the slightest relief from our current circumstances by diverting our mind to things or area that is currently working in our life, E.g. Our loved one's adoration for us! Our friends support for us. All the various experiences in our life that have helped built our character and the strength and confidence in us. The inner knowing that we have what it takes to get ourselves out of any tricky situation. To be thankful for the warm bed we get into; on a cold winter's night or all the abundance around us.
When we feel the slightest relief, we will get the glimpse of the solution and we will get an idea or a thought for the next step in our negative situation and step by step we will be guided to a perfect solution.
The experiences that we suffer when our nearest and dearest deceive us. We get this feeling that the whole world has turned against? Or it is like God abandoning us! Instead HE is showing that the only true and faithful eternal relationship we can ever have is with GOD. Because lets be honest here, before we have never thought of dedicating our life to an ashram, only now we are feeling that this world is too materialistic. So variety in life gives us awareness that life is more then what we think it is. It helps us to live our life to its maximum potential.
Life has given us an opportunity to see a different angle or perspective. Once we understand that LIFE does not have any deceitful agenda or hidden motive, but ONLY pure well-being FOR OUR GROWTH, now that's when life becomes meaningful and exciting. The growth may be disguised as loss of business or unhappiness caused by our loved ones, but please witness it as our personal growth and we will get a glimpse to a creative solution.
The above is from my own understanding and what life has taught me personally. This has helped me in journey of my life to grow and be who I am today.
Often we struggle with what we are experiencing. We feel that "The grass is greener" over there. I am sometimes guilty for being impatient when certain situations don't appear to go my way!
My secret discovery have been; the moment I stop struggling and accept whatever is happening the resistance drops. I remind myself, "I have a choice." I have the ability to make it better.
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