Exhausted And Tired? Why Do Bad Things Happen to Me?
Often times, we get looped in a vicious circle of unfortunate events, adverse situations, unlucky circumstances, awkward relationships and feel trapped! It does not stop on the personal front, but expands to disastrous business deals, ill-timed accidents, and dangerous incidents. One thing after the other keeps occurring without the fate changing! Sometimes we get entangled in a ferocious spin of uncontrollable experiences! We feel exhausted and out of control.
“How come bad luck, never seems to leave me?” I hear you ask. Or does everyone around you feel so much in control… and you want to feel that way, so badly?
At times, valuable years of our life are wasted, and on occasion an entire life-time goes in a negative spin. Most may not realise, their good fortune, until they have lost it or it becomes too late to appreciate it.
Have you been suffering or have been unhappy for a very long time?
Distressful situations keep occurring.... and same handfuls of people are involved!
Are you always blaming others and feel like a victim?
Does everything you do or touch turns into a disastrous mess?
Are you exhausted and feel very dark inside and outside?
Are you concentrating on all the things that have gone wrong?
Still complaining, about an incident that happened nearly two months ago?
Can not find the strength to understand and forgive the misunderstanding that lead to an argument with a loved one?
Does the conversation at the dinner party, revolve around how difficult life is?
This small truth releases those who take time to contemplate and grasp; Thoughts becomes Stuff in our Life!
The insight came to me that, each time, we continue to think and feel in an unhelpful, non-constructive and depressing way NOW, another event or situation will arise and it will be worse or catastrophic! It normally drains and wears individuals out. What are the tell-tales of someone who is caught in this damaging spiral? Many would feel unappreciated and unrewarded at the best of times. They would not enjoy nor see the benefit of doing anything! No matter how good things are or could be. Some people are unable to see any good in anything or anyone. Until……the awareness, of how orderly our world is.
The astounding revelation is; “Each and every time, we put our full attention on; we create that in our future”. This secret changed everything for me. In other words, if today what ever I am feeling, while thinking, regarding the on-goings of my life ....I will attract it or the same will repeat that same feeling again in my future!”
So how do we create?
Each time we think, ponder, remember, discuss, re-act, imagine, consider, suppose, assume, sense, reason, deliberate, mull over, and weigh upon WE CREATE.
Often times I am questioned, “Surly we would not have created this unfortunate event?" or "How could I have wished this upon myself? I would not even wish this on my enemies."
When we unintentionally or deliberately visualize every kind of deficiency, limitation, or discord, we create these conditions; this is what many are unconsciously doing all the time.
How can we create what we want?
"Thoughts have wings... and it can fly" ~ Divya Vinai Shah
To improve our state of affairs or conditions, we must first improve ourselves. Our feelings, thoughts and desires will be the first to show improvement.
When we begin to understand that contentment, well-being, accomplishments, wealth, and every other condition or environment are results, and that these results are created by right thinking, whether consciously or unconsciously, we shall realize the importance of a working knowledge of the laws governing thought.
To be happy, we should make deliberate effort to feel good. It is surprising, how even the smallest gesture, to feel at ease, will take away the feeling of hopelessness. Find positive people and take pleasure in doing little things.
When we take time to be in stillness to think, ponder, remember, discuss, re-act, imagine, consider, suppose, assume, sense, reason, deliberate, mull over, and weigh upon ONLY THE BEST, POSITIVE PART OF OUR DAY, we create what we want.
The most helpful way is to find people who are less fortunate then us and give them a hand. Doing something for nothing has proven to be a very good method to improve how we feel and it will make anyone feel worthy. One of the most effective ways to improve our state of being is to Meditate.
Our life on this earth is a blessing. To comprehend this is an amazing and brilliant TRUTH, which liberates us from an uncontrollable and destructive way of living.
We are master creators of our life. We have the free will to put our thought or full mind on ANYTHING and it will become REALITY. We can be, do and have anything, that we choose to put our mental attention on. Outwardly, anyone or anything becomes responsible to create it, however our thoughts are what caused it.
"You see things; and you say, 'Why?' But I dream things that never were; and I say, 'Why not?'" ~ George Bernard Shaw
It's vital to know how we are feeling, as negative emotions indicate or alerts us that we are in the process of manifesting something negative. If we stay in this negative thinking state for a prolonged period we create a mind-set to think negatively all the time. Knowledge of why we create this negative pattern, creates awareness. This awareness empowers us to find creative solutions as easy as how light disperses darkness!
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Light, Love and Joy always
Divya Vinai Shah
TSF Visionary & Founder