How to Stop Fighting with What Is?
Often times we struggle with the outcome of a certain situation or are not happy with the results after our life time of immense efforts. The disappointment may be with our achievements, our expectations, our relationships or even our health!
Are you struggling to accept what has happened in your life?
Time and time again we resist with "What Is" and refuse to accept the bleak reality (that we face day in day out) and willfully hoping that things are different.
Do you feel trapped in this vicious circle of struggle and non acceptance?
Frequently well-meaning friends, family encourage us to think positively. Are you tired of self-help gurus time and again saying, "Live Life aggressively." "Stop complaining and take charge of your life today!"
Lets be honest, the above phrase does not stir any positive emotions or motivates us optimistically. Instead we are deeply disappointed from the entire endeavor in insistently fighting with the on-goings in our life; in other words we have forcefully denied reality.
Do you feel extremely exhausted but are afraid to give-up? You so badly want things as how it used to be, but do not know how to make that happen? You neither have the energy to continue nor have the faith to give-up.
Most times, when we are so afraid to stop and relax, and believe that if we stop trying, we will fail, that's when it's best to STOP forcing the issue. It's okay to Let Go.
When we allow ourselves to relax and let go... God's Grace catches us.
Letting go of the struggle, and relaxing in our well-being is the ONLY thing we can do. Life need not be a struggle.
Power of Acceptance
"The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance." - Nathaniel Branden
Acceptance is the first step that leads towards transformation or a slight change in the condition at hand. When we struggle with the moment we will struggle with the entire universe. Accepting whatever life brings to us, subdues all the obstacles down. Accepting this moment as it is enables us to activate our inner most strength to bring about transformation, which otherwise lays dormant. Acknowledging and not struggling takes the power away from the obstacles and shifts the power towards our state of being, which in turn allows access to creative change. Acceptance loosens our focus or attention on the problem at hand, and turns our mind to sieve through to a creative solution. Whenever we shift our focus, we always attract a different condition i.e. an answer or a first tiny step towards an astounding solution. Acceptance helps to reduce stress and worry. The power of Acceptance renews our severed connection with GOD.
Power of Surrender
"Let go off the illusion of control. It will happen when it's ready. You need to believe and nurture your dream and believe in it and it will fulfill its destiny. You must believe."
Surrender follows after Acceptance. If we try to surrender any event, circumstance, situation, difficult relationships, problematic conditions without accepting them for what there are or for their "Is ness", we will be creating a lot of resistance and conflict and will not be able to fully surrender. Instead after Accepting or affirming, we then surrender it to the higher source to find us a solution or an answer, we would be able to tap into the Universe's reservoir of many productive solutions. If we act upon our internal thoughts and images or visualisation, we generate a reaction. Surrendering without questioning, but total release or hold will automatically and spontaneously open doors to our most inner powers. Not controlling the results enables GOD to intervene and give us miraculous results. Witnessing any actions that we do without the need to judge, control or expect will net amazing results, which we sometimes call magic!
Power of Surrender is felt when we have total faith in God's well-being for us, our own faith in our abilities and total loyalty of our life's script or blue print.
It's vital to know how we are feeling, as negative emotions indicate or alerts us that we are in the process of manifesting something negative. If we stay in the negative thinking for a prolonged period we create a mind-set to think negatively all the time. Knowledge of why we create this negative pattern, creates awareness. This awareness empowers us to find creative solutions as easy as how light disperses darkness!
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Divya Vinai Shah
TSF Visionary & Founder
The Soul Frequencies